Fin and Daprima have just returned from a charity ball
and are about to have a late night snack in the kitchen ...
FIN:
… Have a seat D, I'll take care of everything.
DAPRIMA:
Thanks babe, these shoes are killing me.
FIN:
Now that I have you all to myself there's something
I want to talk to you about. I hope you don't get mad.
DAPRIMA:
That sounds a bit ominous.
FIN:
No, not really. It’s actually kind of cute. Orrie wants to be an uncle.
DAPRIMA:
He just blurted that out - did he?
FIN:
You know Orrie. I guess he figures I'm his only shot, and he has Brynie's
support. Actually I was ambushed by all of them when I went to see
Karanthir. They demanded to know why I hadn't proposed to you yet.
DAPRIMA:
I hope you told them you did, more than once.
FIN:
Uh-huh, and that you rejected me each time.
DAPRIMA:
I never rejected you babe, I just didn't say yes.
FIN:
Sounds like a rejection to me. Why won't you marry me Daprima?
DAPRIMA:
You know I need to finish school.
FIN:
We can wait until you've graduated.
DAPRIMA:
Babe, listen to me ... I love you. You're my very best friend, my forever always. We don't need a ring or a document. We're good, we're better
than good. We're fantastic. Why can't we just be?
FIN:
Because I love you too, and when two people feel the way we do,
they usually get married. I want a reason D, a real one.
DAPRIMA:
It's hard to explain ...
FIN:
Try.
DAPRIMA:
Well, if we got married, it would be like ... the beginning of the end.
I know it doesn't make much sense but the way I see it – you grow up,
get married, have kids, and then you die.
FIN:
Well, yes, but hopefully not as quickly as you make it all sound.
DAPRIMA:
That's irrelevant. Look, my parents got married, had kids and died.
Your parents got married, had kids and died. See?
FIN:
So, by not marrying me, you're saving my life?
DAPRIMA:
I know it's not rational, and I wish I could shake this feeling
but the whole thing just scares me to death.
FIN:
I'm glad you told me. Now, how do we get passed this?
DAPRIMA:
I've been racking my brain about it ever since you proposed.
I'd like to say yes but … I'm sorry Fin – I just can’t, not now.
FIN:
OK. What if we approach this with baby steps?
DAPRIMA:
Baby steps?
FIN:
We become engaged. No - wait! Hear me out ...
FIN:
… We become engaged, but we don't set a date. We can just be happily engaged, indefinitely. Is being engaged part of the beginning of the end?
DAPRIMA:
I'm not sure. Maybe being engaged feels OK to me?
I’ll have to think about some more.
FIN:
And just to be clear – I'm not proposing right now.
This is just a hypothetical solution.
DAPRIMA:
I'm good with that.
FIN:
Great. Now about these kids, I'm in no hurry to become a father. I'm
already responsible for Brynie and Orrie, and then there's Karanthir
- who's still my younger brother. And you have Mez and Grace ...
DAPRIMA:
And Io. Don't foget about Io. Sometimes he's a like a little kid too.
FIN:
Exactly. I mean, I'm looking forward to a time when
they're all out of our hair and it's just the two of us.
DAPRIMA:
Oh babe – I'm so relieved to hear you say that. I feel exactly the same way.
And I still have to pass the bar, practice law, maybe become a judge
– who knows? Having a baby is pretty far off into the future for me.
FIN:
But, you do want one?
DAPRIMA:
Yes, I think so. You?
FIN:
I think so too. Just, like you said, far off in the future.
DAPRIMA:
Oh babe, I'm so glad we had this little talk. I feel so much better now.
FIN:
Me too, about everything. So how do you want your eggs?